I just realized one “bullshit”, ok here’s the thing, basically when kids grow up, they should learn to respect adults and family members and not try to take advantage of your parents by relying on them with everything, thats what most people who tell their friends of how to take care of their child.

Here are the factors:-

- A kid who’s spoiled by their parents, cause they give them everything, and they do nothing, and learn nothing, and grow up being a pushover or simply a disgrace to the family, with basically no career. (Parents Too Good – Child’s = Shit)

- Another factor is that, the kid who was born, and made the family lose their fortune, and parents tend to treat their child like shit, as they’d put the blame on the child, however, the child will do anything their parents say. (Parents Too Mean – Child’s = Good)

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- Then comes another different factor, child’s a pretty tempremental, or considerable bad child in the family, parents tend to force them to go school or any other practice, and they’d be begging their parents for a day off or so. (Child = Shit, and Parents want them to be good by going for more practice or learning)

- As of the other hand, child’s pretty good to the family, and can do everything by himselves, without relying everything on the family, however, just for the fact he’s too good to the family, the family will treat him really nice, and when he goes off for some training courses, and wanted to get really good, and does not want to waste time by having day off, the parents will force/pressurize him/her that he/she must have a day off during the family day. And think about it, one day rest per week, within a year, you rest 48days, its more than a month. (Child = Really Good, Parents not thinking for the better of their child’s future)

So you tell me, what can a person do to satisfy everyone including themselves? Life is just so complicated, that I never get to understand the right or wrong. =P